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Key Takeaways
- Family support can be structured as loans or gifts.
- Loans can be documented with a deed or trust structure.
- Co-ownership gives control but adds bank requirements.
- Gifts are simpler but still need clear documentation.
- Independent legal advice protects everyone's interests.
In Part 3 of the Legal Toolkit series (see Part 1), we highlight the differences between a loan from parents vs a gift from parents (AKA the bank of Mum and Dad). As always we recommend getting good independent legal advice.
The Bank of Mum and Dad – Loans vs Gifts
There are various ways that monetary assistance from your parents towards the purchase of a property can be recorded/protected depending on whether your parents will be loaning or gifting this monetary assistance. The most common options are:
Option 1: Deed of Acknowledgement of Debt
A Deed Of Acknowledgement Of Debt (with or without a registered mortgage) to record that you owe a specified amount to your parents. This debt would usually be repayable upon the property being sold.
Option 2: Co-ownership with Parents on Title
Co-owning the property with your parents and with your parents being registered as a joint owner on the record of title. The risk with this option is that your bank will usually require your parents to be co-borrowers under the loan agreement (or at the very least, guarantors) and you would have to consult with your parents when you want to sell and/or refinance.
The advantage for your parents is having some control over the property and potentially benefitting from any increase in equity over time. We would always recommend a Property Sharing Agreement in this scenario.
Option 3: Declaration of Trust
Co-owning the property with your parents, but they are not recorded on the record of title. A document called a Declaration of Trust can be entered into to record that your parents have an interest (or percentage) in the property but that the other co-owners are holding the property for the parents on trust.
Option 4: Gift as Early Inheritance
A gift to you that can be recorded as an early inheritance to ensure there are no disputes between siblings.
The Simple Option: Gifting
Most parents decide that gifting money is the most simple and straight-forward option for them and their children. Although they may not have a say or any control over the property that is purchased (besides maybe insisting on a Contracting out Agreement to protect their child's interest), at least there are no personal obligations that come with considering tax and obligations as a co-borrower or a guarantor to a bank.
Important: All parties should get independent legal advice to ensure that any proposed structure is clearly documented and explained to ensure that everyone knows where they stand and what the pros and cons of each option are before deciding on the best option to take.
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